On Protest: 1, 2, 3

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1. When hate comes to your hometown — Jodi Rudoren, The Forward

    With police forces in between, pro-Palestinian and pro-Israeli protesters stand across the street from one another in Montclair, New Jersey. Photo by Shayna Rudoren

    Say it loud and say it clear, the guy in the black hoodie began. We don’t want no Zionists here! He punched his fist in the air as the crowd joined in. We don’t want no Zionists here! We don’t want no Zionists here! We don’t want no Zionists here!

    Welcome to Montclair, New Jersey, circa 2024. A New York suburb of 40,000 known for its racial diversity, liberal politics, magnet schools, impossible real estate prices (and taxes), panoply of restaurants, annual film festival, frequent Yacht Rock concerts and, now, hate speech. Stephen Colbert’s hometown, and mine. …

    I know a lot of my Jewish neighbors, the folks that were on an adjacent corner with Israeli flags and signs like “Denying Jewish history and our connection to Israel is an act of hate,” heard the “No Zionists here” chant as equivalent to “No Jews.” They rightfully point out that it’s impossible to imagine a similar scenario in Montclair targeting any other religious or ethnic group. …

    And whichever definition [of Zionism] you choose, whichever group you target, I’m going to be uncomfortable with people chanting that they should not be allowed in my hometown.

    Which, I should be clear, does not mean those people should not be allowed to chant it. I believe one of the proudest moments in our history was a Jewish ACLU lawyer defending neo-Nazis’ right to march in Skokie. If the Montclair City Council added a Palestinian flag under the Israeli and Ukrainian ones on our flagpole on Church Street, I’d be fine with it.

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    2. The Campus Protests Make Me Uncomfortable. And They Fill Me with Hope

    —Peter Beinart, The Beinart Notebook

    It’s important not to get distracted by one particular video you might see and to focus attention on the core demands of this movement. … The core of this movement is the demand to end university and American governmental complicity with Israel’s system of oppression, which is now culminated in this horrifying slaughter of people in Gaza.

    This complicity must end. It must end because, among other things, it puts Jews in danger. We must see the lie that you can construct a system of Jewish safety on the destruction and brutalization of another people. We should recognize that October the 7th is just a taste of the horrors that will come to everybody if this system of oppression is deepened and entrenched. Because a system of violence breeds violence. That does not excuse Hamas from its moral responsibility for the horrors of October 7th, not for a second. That’s why I said it’s critical that we promote the idea, that we argue for a movement that makes the distinction between ethical and unethical resistance.

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    3. How Protesters Can Actually Help Palestinians

    — Nicholas Kristof, The New York Times

    Student protesters: I admire your empathy for Gazans, your concern for the world, your moral ambition to make a difference.

    But I worry about how peaceful protests have tipped into occupations of buildings, risks to commencements and what I see as undue tolerance of antisemitism, chaos, vandalism and extremism. I’m afraid the more aggressive actions may be hurting the Gazans you are trying to help.

    I’m shaped in my thinking by the Vietnam War protests of the 1960s. Students who protested then were right on the merits: The war was unwinnable and conducted in ways that were reckless and immoral.

    Yet those students didn’t shorten that terrible war; instead, they probably prolonged it. Leftist activists in 1968 didn’t achieve their goal of electing the peace candidate Gene McCarthy; rather, the turmoil and more violent protests helped elect Richard Nixon, who pledged to restore order — and then dragged the war out and expanded it to Cambodia.

    I think that history is worth remembering today. Good intentions are not enough. Empathy is not enough. I’m sure we all agree that it’s outcomes that matter. So the question I would ask you to ask yourselves is: Are your encampments and sacrifices — more than 1,000 protesters have been arrested so far, and unknown numbers have been suspended or expelled — actually helping Gazans?

    I’ve been strongly criticizing Israel’s conduct in Gaza since last fall, and President Biden’s unconditional support for the war. So while my heart’s with the cause, it seems to me that the campus upheavals have distracted from the crisis in Gaza, rather than called attention to it. …

    Protest itself is a good thing: Students can write letters to the editor, circulate petitions, hold peaceful rallies and call their members of Congress (or flood the comments section of this column!). I’m all for demanding more humanitarian aid to Gaza and a suspension of transfers of offensive weapons to Israel until it adheres to humanitarian law, plus a major push for a Palestinian state.

    Finally, let me offer two concrete suggestions for how we can meaningfully help Palestinians that don’t involve occupying campuses, getting kicked out of college and risking the prolongation of the war.

    First, raise funds for organizations actively helping Gazans, like Save the Children, Gisha or International Rescue Committee. That may seem discouragingly modest but it will help real people in desperate need.

    Second, this may sound zany, but how about raising money to send as many of your student leaders as possible this summer to live in the West Bank and learn from Palestinians there (while engaging with Israelis on the way in or out)? West Bank monitors say that a recent Israeli crackdown on foreigners helping Palestinians, by denying entry or deporting people, has made this more difficult but not impossible.

    Student visitors must be prudent and cautious but could study Arabic, teach English and volunteer with human rights organizations on the ground. Palestinians in parts of the West Bank are under siege, periodically attacked by settlers and in need of observers and advocates.

    Those students returning at the end of the summer would have a much deeper understanding of the issues and how to help. It would be life-changing, an education as rich as any you’re getting on campus.

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    Word of Mouth: Really, Truly, Almost Spring

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    Musical: A Sign of the Times Lindsay Hope Pearlman, Richard J. Robin, Gabriel Barre, JoAnne M. Hunter, Joseph Church.

    Extrauterine Children: The IVF Ruling Is About Who Gets to Raise Your Children — Dahlia Lithwick in SLATE.

    Novel: Lady in the Lake — Laura Lippman

    Podcast: The Wars in Ukraine and Gaza Have Changed. America’s Policy Hasn’t — Richard Haass on the Ezra Klein Show.

    Podcast: Trump and the Age of Disinformation — Barb McQuade on Stay Tuned with Preet.

    Double Standards: Israel, Gaza and Double Standards, Including Our Own — Nicholas Kristof in the New York Times.

    TV: Avatar: the Last Air Bender — Albert Kim.

    Movie: Shortcomings — Randall Park.

    Idea: Dobbs was never self-limiting to abortion—it was a save-the-date card for the religious right’s plan to come for the rest of our reproductive freedoms. …

    This is the two-step wherein the state forces women to have babies they cannot raise, does nothing to help support them, then swoops in to seize the babies when their parents are seen as endangering them—a phenomenon that of course predominantly hurts poor women and women of color. The state also ensures that adoptions flow in the direction of more “worthy” parents, which means heterosexual and Christian parents, a regime also built into the legal framework. The list of people who cannot assert autonomy and control over their potential children has, in the course of a few weeks, now expanded from LGBTQ+ parents, single parents, poor parents, and parents of color to anyone who has started the process of IVF in Alabama.” —The IVF Ruling Is About Who Gets to Raise Your Children — Dahlia Lithwick in SLATE.

    Word of Mouth: Almost Spring Edition

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    Memoir: Go Back and Get It: A Memoir of Race, Inheritance, and Intergenerational Healing — Dionne Ford

    Non-Fiction: Fluke: Chance, Chaos, and Why Everything We Do Matters — Brian Klaas

    Movie: American Fiction — Cord Jefferson

    Movie: The Meyerowitz Stories(new and selected) — Noah Baumbach

    TV: Mr and Mrs Smith — Donald Glover, Francesca Sloane

    TV: Magpie Murders — Anthony Horowitz, Peter Cattaneo

    Idea: “President Biden has thus far declined to impose consequences on Netanyahu for his repeated disregard of U.S. positions and interests. Ending the double standard which sets a lower bar for Israel, and requiring the mutual recognition of the right to statehood and compliance with the other Quartet Principles, would be an even-handed place to start. It is essential for the U.S. to enforce this mutual recognition, as it seeks to not merely end the current war, but set a course to finally resolve the underlying conflict, and ensure that the horrors suffered by Israelis and Palestinians never happen again.”

    Both the Israeli and Palestinian governments should be obligated to recognize the other’s right to statehoodDylan Williams in the Forward

    Idea: “It’s tempting to see Navalny’s apparent murder, as some American analysts have, as a sign of weakness on the part of Putin. But a dictator’s ability to annihilate what he fears is a measure of his hold on power, as is his ability to choose the time to strike.”

    The Death of Alexey Navalny, Putin’s Most Formidable Opponent — Masha Gessen in the New Yorker

    WORD OF MOUTH: Mid-Winter

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    NONFICTION: DOPPELGANGER: A Trip into the Mirror World — Naomi Klein

    YES! A Handy Manual for Republicans Commenting on Mass Shootings — Jamie Raskin

    TV: Schmigadoon! Season 2 — Ken Daurio, Cinco Paul

    TV: The Brothers Sun —Brad Falchuk, Amy Wang, Brian Wu

    MOVIE: The Woman King — Gina Prince-Bythewood

    PODCAST: “Chaos Theory Explains It.” Brian Klaas, author of  Fluke: Chance, Chaos, and Why Everything We Do Matters, on the Brian Lehrer Show.

    SPIRITUAL REWIRING: Train Yourself to Always Show Up — Rabbi Sharon Brous

    IDEA: “The spread of lies and conspiracies online is now so rampant that it threatens public health and, quite possibly, the survival of representative democracy. The solution to this informational crisis, however, is not to look to tech oligarchs to disappear people we don’t like; it’s to get serious about demanding an information commons that can be counted upon as a basic civic right.” Naomi Klein

    IDEA: “It’s time to pass the universal background check and restore the expired ban on military-style assault rifles, which was constitutional and effective. Weapons of war are unnecessary for hunting, recreation or self-defense in the home, which are the purposes of individual gun ownership outside of military service protected by the Second Amendment.” — Jamie Raskin

    WORD OF MOUTH: Early Winter

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    Novel: The Bandit Queens — Parini Shroff

    Non-Fiction: Your Face Belongs To Us: A Secretive Startup’s Quest To End Privacy as We Know It — Kashmir Hill

    Psychology: Spite: The Upside of Your Dark Side — Simon McCarthy-Jones

    Memoir: Foolish: Tales of Assimilation, Determination, and Humiliation — Sarah Cooper

    Memoir: Misfit: Growing Up Awkward in the ’80s — Gary Gulman

    Movie: Nyad – Jimmy Chin, Elizabeth Chai Vasarhelyi

    Novel: The Thursday Murder Club — Richard Osman

    Podcast: What Now? –– Trevor Noah

    WORD OF MOUTH: FALL

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    Short Stories: The Secret Lives of Church Ladies — Deesha Philyaw

    Novel: How To Love Your Daughter — Hila Blum, translated by Daniella Zamir

    Non-Fiction: Kill’em and Leave: Searching for James Brown and the American Soul — James McBride

    TV: Never Have I Ever — Lang Fisher, Mindy Kaling

    Novel: The Sasquatch Hunter’s Almanac — Sharma Shields

    Podcast: How to Think About AI — Freakonomics, Steven Dubner

    WORD OF MOUTH: EARLY SUMMER

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    Novel: The Liar — Ayelet Gundar-Goshen

    Novel: Post-Traumatic — Chantal V. Johnson

    Novel: Her — Harriet Lane

    Non-fiction: Sorry, Sorry, Sorry: the Case for Good Apologies — Marjorie Ingall, Susan McCarthy

    Memoir: The Summer of Fall: Gravity Is a Bitch, but I’m Still Standing — Laura Lippman

    Young Adult Novel: Yaqui Delgado Wants to Kick Your Ass — Meg Medina

    TV: Abbot Elementary — Quinta Brunson

    Movie: You Hurt My Feelings — Nicole Holofcener

    Documentary: Three Minutes: a Lengthening — Bianca Stigter, Glenn Kurtz

    Word of Mouth: Spring

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    Novel: Take What You Need — Idra Novey

    Novel: Vera Kelly: Lost and Found — Rosalie Knecht

    Novel: The Talented Miss Farwell — Emily Gray Tedrowe

    Middle Grade: Cuba in My Pocket — Adrianna Cuevas

    Middle Grade, in Spanish: Con Cuba el bolsillo — Adrianna Cuevas, traducción por Alexis Romay

    Illumination: Reader, Come Home: The Reading Brain in a Digital World — Maryanne Wolf

    Podcast: “The Great Vaccinator” — RadioLab

    Movie: The Bad Guys — Pierre Perifel

    TV: Not Dead Yet — David Windsor and Casey Johnson

    Some thoughts on history:

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    Sieve from Coffin House, Newbury Massachusetts. Unknown maker. Image credit: Historic New England.

    “Those outside the academy tend to think of history as settled, as a simple recounting of what events happened on what date and who was involved in those incidents. But while history is what happened, it is also, just as important, how we think about what happened and what we unearth and choose to remember about what happened.”

    — Nikole Hannah-Jones: The 1619 Project: A New Origin Story

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    “History is not the past. It’s the method we’ve evolved of organizing our ignorance of the past…. It’s the record of what’s left on the record… It’s what’s left in the sieve when the centuries have run through it…. It’s no more the past than a birth certificate is a birth, or a script is a performance, or a map is a journey…. It’s no more than the best we can do. And often, it falls short of that.”

    — Hilary Mantel, quoted in On the Media: How Historical Novels Can Help Us Remember

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    “The common denominator of so many of the strange and troubling cultural narratives coming our way is a set of assumptions about who matters, whose story it is, who deserves the pity and the treats and the presumptions of innocence, the kid gloves and the red carpet, and ultimately the kingdom, the power, and the glory. You already know who. It’s white people in general and white men in particular, and especially white Protestant men, some of whom are apparently dismayed to find out that there is going to be, as your mom might have put it, sharing. The history of this country has been written as their story, and the news sometimes still tells it this way—one of the battles of our time is about who the story is about, who matters and who decides.”

    — Rebecca Solnit: “Whose Story (and Country) Is This? On the Myth of a ‘Real’ America”

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    “[U]nderstanding history as a form of inquiry—not as something easy or comforting but as something demanding and exhausting—was central to the nation’s founding. This, too, was new. In the West, the oldest stories, the Iliad and the Odyssey, are odes and tales of wars and kings, of men and gods, sung and told. These stories were memorials, and so were the histories of antiquity: they were meant as monuments….

    “Only by fits and starts did history become not merely a form of memory but also a form of investigation, to be disputed, like philosophy, its premises questioned, its evidence examined, its arguments countered….

    “This new understanding of the past attempted to divide history from faith. The books of world religions—the Hebrew Bible, the New Testament, and the Quran—are pregnant with mysteries, truths known only by God, taken on faith. In the new history books, historians aimed to solve mysteries and to discover their own truths. The turn from reverence to inquiry, from mystery to history, was crucial to the founding of the United States. It didn’t require abdicating faith in the truths of revealed religion and it relieved no one of the obligation to judge right from wrong. But it did require subjecting the past to skepticism, to look to beginnings not to justify ends, but to question them—with evidence.

    — Jill Lepore: These Truths: A History of the United States

    Word of Mouth: Early Spring

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    Movie: The Swimmers — Sally El Hosaini

    TV: Bad Sisters — Brett Baer, Dave Finkel, Sharon Horgan

    TV: Gut Job — Sebastian Clovis

    Change: White Women: Everything You Already Know About Your Own Racism and How to Do Better — Regina Jackson and Saira Rao

    Novel: Notes on Your Sudden Disappearance — Alison Espach

    Novel: City Under One Roof — Iris Yamashita

    Novel: Follow Me — Kathleen Barber

    Novel: The Great Man Theory — Teddy Wayne

    Making real the promises of democracy

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    Sixty years after the 1963 March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom, the nation still needs to be reminded of what Martin Luther King, Jr. called “the fierce urgency of now.” My husband, the brilliant and thoughtful Alexis Romay, recently had the honor of translating Dr. King’s iconic “I Have a Dream” speech into Spanish. The book has a forward by National Youth Poet Laureate, Amanda Gorman, also translated by Alexis. 

    Tonight, Monday, January 16 (at 7PM), on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, Alexis will be reading and reflecting on the experience of translating this important work at Watchung Booksellers, in Montclair, NJ. The event will be in Spanish. You can register here. 

    Abomasnow, Mega Abomasnow, Abra, Absol, Mega Absol… Zygard Complete

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    Mega Abomasnow, from the Pokémon website.

    I’d like to publicly thank my son, who spent 35 minutes reading through the entire Dramatis Personae of the Pokémon universe into my phone, in a monotone, to create a soundtrack to help me fall asleep at night. At the end of the list, he even began an open-ended discussion of “cool cars,” including one with a V-12 engine —something that has reliably caused slumber when he broached the subject in the afternoon. Here’s hoping, because I have pretty much stopped sleeping at night altogether.

    According to the Pokémon Super Deluxe Essential Handbook, “An important part of a Trainer’s job is to take good care of his or her Pokémon.” I feel very taken care of today!

    WORD OF MOUTH: Early Winter Edition

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    Novel: Take My Hand — Dolen Perkins-Valdez

    Novel: The Work Wife — Alison B. Hart

    History: Polio: An American Story — David M. Oshinsky

    Middle Grade Novel: Merci Suarez Changes Gears— Meg Medina

    Podcast: Ask a Librarian, With Julie Chavez: Translating Ways of Being, with Meg Medina and Alexis Romay.

    Anthology: Home in Florida: Latinx Writers and the Literature of Uprootedness — Anjanette Delgado

    TV: My Crazy Ex-Girlfriend — Rachel Bloom, Aline Brosh McKenna

    Movie: Vengeance — B.J. Novak

    Music: Tinta y Tiempo — Jorge Drexler