Word of Mouth: Really, Truly, Almost Spring

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Musical: A Sign of the Times Lindsay Hope Pearlman, Richard J. Robin, Gabriel Barre, JoAnne M. Hunter, Joseph Church.

Extrauterine Children: The IVF Ruling Is About Who Gets to Raise Your Children — Dahlia Lithwick in SLATE.

Novel: Lady in the Lake — Laura Lippman

Podcast: The Wars in Ukraine and Gaza Have Changed. America’s Policy Hasn’t — Richard Haass on the Ezra Klein Show.

Podcast: Trump and the Age of Disinformation — Barb McQuade on Stay Tuned with Preet.

Double Standards: Israel, Gaza and Double Standards, Including Our Own — Nicholas Kristof in the New York Times.

TV: Avatar: the Last Air Bender — Albert Kim.

Movie: Shortcomings — Randall Park.

Idea: Dobbs was never self-limiting to abortion—it was a save-the-date card for the religious right’s plan to come for the rest of our reproductive freedoms. …

This is the two-step wherein the state forces women to have babies they cannot raise, does nothing to help support them, then swoops in to seize the babies when their parents are seen as endangering them—a phenomenon that of course predominantly hurts poor women and women of color. The state also ensures that adoptions flow in the direction of more “worthy” parents, which means heterosexual and Christian parents, a regime also built into the legal framework. The list of people who cannot assert autonomy and control over their potential children has, in the course of a few weeks, now expanded from LGBTQ+ parents, single parents, poor parents, and parents of color to anyone who has started the process of IVF in Alabama.” —The IVF Ruling Is About Who Gets to Raise Your Children — Dahlia Lithwick in SLATE.

Word of Mouth: Almost Spring Edition

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Memoir: Go Back and Get It: A Memoir of Race, Inheritance, and Intergenerational Healing — Dionne Ford

Non-Fiction: Fluke: Chance, Chaos, and Why Everything We Do Matters — Brian Klaas

Movie: American Fiction — Cord Jefferson

Movie: The Meyerowitz Stories(new and selected) — Noah Baumbach

TV: Mr and Mrs Smith — Donald Glover, Francesca Sloane

TV: Magpie Murders — Anthony Horowitz, Peter Cattaneo

Idea: “President Biden has thus far declined to impose consequences on Netanyahu for his repeated disregard of U.S. positions and interests. Ending the double standard which sets a lower bar for Israel, and requiring the mutual recognition of the right to statehood and compliance with the other Quartet Principles, would be an even-handed place to start. It is essential for the U.S. to enforce this mutual recognition, as it seeks to not merely end the current war, but set a course to finally resolve the underlying conflict, and ensure that the horrors suffered by Israelis and Palestinians never happen again.”

Both the Israeli and Palestinian governments should be obligated to recognize the other’s right to statehoodDylan Williams in the Forward

Idea: “It’s tempting to see Navalny’s apparent murder, as some American analysts have, as a sign of weakness on the part of Putin. But a dictator’s ability to annihilate what he fears is a measure of his hold on power, as is his ability to choose the time to strike.”

The Death of Alexey Navalny, Putin’s Most Formidable Opponent — Masha Gessen in the New Yorker

WORD OF MOUTH: Mid-Winter

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NONFICTION: DOPPELGANGER: A Trip into the Mirror World — Naomi Klein

YES! A Handy Manual for Republicans Commenting on Mass Shootings — Jamie Raskin

TV: Schmigadoon! Season 2 — Ken Daurio, Cinco Paul

TV: The Brothers Sun —Brad Falchuk, Amy Wang, Brian Wu

MOVIE: The Woman King — Gina Prince-Bythewood

PODCAST: “Chaos Theory Explains It.” Brian Klaas, author of  Fluke: Chance, Chaos, and Why Everything We Do Matters, on the Brian Lehrer Show.

SPIRITUAL REWIRING: Train Yourself to Always Show Up — Rabbi Sharon Brous

IDEA: “The spread of lies and conspiracies online is now so rampant that it threatens public health and, quite possibly, the survival of representative democracy. The solution to this informational crisis, however, is not to look to tech oligarchs to disappear people we don’t like; it’s to get serious about demanding an information commons that can be counted upon as a basic civic right.” Naomi Klein

IDEA: “It’s time to pass the universal background check and restore the expired ban on military-style assault rifles, which was constitutional and effective. Weapons of war are unnecessary for hunting, recreation or self-defense in the home, which are the purposes of individual gun ownership outside of military service protected by the Second Amendment.” — Jamie Raskin

WORD OF MOUTH: Early Winter

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Novel: The Bandit Queens — Parini Shroff

Non-Fiction: Your Face Belongs To Us: A Secretive Startup’s Quest To End Privacy as We Know It — Kashmir Hill

Psychology: Spite: The Upside of Your Dark Side — Simon McCarthy-Jones

Memoir: Foolish: Tales of Assimilation, Determination, and Humiliation — Sarah Cooper

Memoir: Misfit: Growing Up Awkward in the ’80s — Gary Gulman

Movie: Nyad – Jimmy Chin, Elizabeth Chai Vasarhelyi

Novel: The Thursday Murder Club — Richard Osman

Podcast: What Now? –– Trevor Noah

WORD OF MOUTH: FALL

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Short Stories: The Secret Lives of Church Ladies — Deesha Philyaw

Novel: How To Love Your Daughter — Hila Blum, translated by Daniella Zamir

Non-Fiction: Kill’em and Leave: Searching for James Brown and the American Soul — James McBride

TV: Never Have I Ever — Lang Fisher, Mindy Kaling

Novel: The Sasquatch Hunter’s Almanac — Sharma Shields

Podcast: How to Think About AI — Freakonomics, Steven Dubner

WORD OF MOUTH: EARLY SUMMER

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Novel: The Liar — Ayelet Gundar-Goshen

Novel: Post-Traumatic — Chantal V. Johnson

Novel: Her — Harriet Lane

Non-fiction: Sorry, Sorry, Sorry: the Case for Good Apologies — Marjorie Ingall, Susan McCarthy

Memoir: The Summer of Fall: Gravity Is a Bitch, but I’m Still Standing — Laura Lippman

Young Adult Novel: Yaqui Delgado Wants to Kick Your Ass — Meg Medina

TV: Abbot Elementary — Quinta Brunson

Movie: You Hurt My Feelings — Nicole Holofcener

Documentary: Three Minutes: a Lengthening — Bianca Stigter, Glenn Kurtz

Word of Mouth: Spring

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Novel: Take What You Need — Idra Novey

Novel: Vera Kelly: Lost and Found — Rosalie Knecht

Novel: The Talented Miss Farwell — Emily Gray Tedrowe

Middle Grade: Cuba in My Pocket — Adrianna Cuevas

Middle Grade, in Spanish: Con Cuba el bolsillo — Adrianna Cuevas, traducción por Alexis Romay

Illumination: Reader, Come Home: The Reading Brain in a Digital World — Maryanne Wolf

Podcast: “The Great Vaccinator” — RadioLab

Movie: The Bad Guys — Pierre Perifel

TV: Not Dead Yet — David Windsor and Casey Johnson

Some thoughts on history:

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Sieve from Coffin House, Newbury Massachusetts. Unknown maker. Image credit: Historic New England.

“Those outside the academy tend to think of history as settled, as a simple recounting of what events happened on what date and who was involved in those incidents. But while history is what happened, it is also, just as important, how we think about what happened and what we unearth and choose to remember about what happened.”

— Nikole Hannah-Jones: The 1619 Project: A New Origin Story

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“History is not the past. It’s the method we’ve evolved of organizing our ignorance of the past…. It’s the record of what’s left on the record… It’s what’s left in the sieve when the centuries have run through it…. It’s no more the past than a birth certificate is a birth, or a script is a performance, or a map is a journey…. It’s no more than the best we can do. And often, it falls short of that.”

— Hilary Mantel, quoted in On the Media: How Historical Novels Can Help Us Remember

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“The common denominator of so many of the strange and troubling cultural narratives coming our way is a set of assumptions about who matters, whose story it is, who deserves the pity and the treats and the presumptions of innocence, the kid gloves and the red carpet, and ultimately the kingdom, the power, and the glory. You already know who. It’s white people in general and white men in particular, and especially white Protestant men, some of whom are apparently dismayed to find out that there is going to be, as your mom might have put it, sharing. The history of this country has been written as their story, and the news sometimes still tells it this way—one of the battles of our time is about who the story is about, who matters and who decides.”

— Rebecca Solnit: “Whose Story (and Country) Is This? On the Myth of a ‘Real’ America”

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“[U]nderstanding history as a form of inquiry—not as something easy or comforting but as something demanding and exhausting—was central to the nation’s founding. This, too, was new. In the West, the oldest stories, the Iliad and the Odyssey, are odes and tales of wars and kings, of men and gods, sung and told. These stories were memorials, and so were the histories of antiquity: they were meant as monuments….

“Only by fits and starts did history become not merely a form of memory but also a form of investigation, to be disputed, like philosophy, its premises questioned, its evidence examined, its arguments countered….

“This new understanding of the past attempted to divide history from faith. The books of world religions—the Hebrew Bible, the New Testament, and the Quran—are pregnant with mysteries, truths known only by God, taken on faith. In the new history books, historians aimed to solve mysteries and to discover their own truths. The turn from reverence to inquiry, from mystery to history, was crucial to the founding of the United States. It didn’t require abdicating faith in the truths of revealed religion and it relieved no one of the obligation to judge right from wrong. But it did require subjecting the past to skepticism, to look to beginnings not to justify ends, but to question them—with evidence.

— Jill Lepore: These Truths: A History of the United States

Word of Mouth: Early Spring

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Movie: The Swimmers — Sally El Hosaini

TV: Bad Sisters — Brett Baer, Dave Finkel, Sharon Horgan

TV: Gut Job — Sebastian Clovis

Change: White Women: Everything You Already Know About Your Own Racism and How to Do Better — Regina Jackson and Saira Rao

Novel: Notes on Your Sudden Disappearance — Alison Espach

Novel: City Under One Roof — Iris Yamashita

Novel: Follow Me — Kathleen Barber

Novel: The Great Man Theory — Teddy Wayne

Making real the promises of democracy

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Sixty years after the 1963 March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom, the nation still needs to be reminded of what Martin Luther King, Jr. called “the fierce urgency of now.” My husband, the brilliant and thoughtful Alexis Romay, recently had the honor of translating Dr. King’s iconic “I Have a Dream” speech into Spanish. The book has a forward by National Youth Poet Laureate, Amanda Gorman, also translated by Alexis. 

Tonight, Monday, January 16 (at 7PM), on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, Alexis will be reading and reflecting on the experience of translating this important work at Watchung Booksellers, in Montclair, NJ. The event will be in Spanish. You can register here. 

Abomasnow, Mega Abomasnow, Abra, Absol, Mega Absol… Zygard Complete

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Mega Abomasnow, from the Pokémon website.

I’d like to publicly thank my son, who spent 35 minutes reading through the entire Dramatis Personae of the Pokémon universe into my phone, in a monotone, to create a soundtrack to help me fall asleep at night. At the end of the list, he even began an open-ended discussion of “cool cars,” including one with a V-12 engine —something that has reliably caused slumber when he broached the subject in the afternoon. Here’s hoping, because I have pretty much stopped sleeping at night altogether.

According to the Pokémon Super Deluxe Essential Handbook, “An important part of a Trainer’s job is to take good care of his or her Pokémon.” I feel very taken care of today!

WORD OF MOUTH: Early Winter Edition

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Novel: Take My Hand — Dolen Perkins-Valdez

Novel: The Work Wife — Alison B. Hart

History: Polio: An American Story — David M. Oshinsky

Middle Grade Novel: Merci Suarez Changes Gears— Meg Medina

Podcast: Ask a Librarian, With Julie Chavez: Translating Ways of Being, with Meg Medina and Alexis Romay.

Anthology: Home in Florida: Latinx Writers and the Literature of Uprootedness — Anjanette Delgado

TV: My Crazy Ex-Girlfriend — Rachel Bloom, Aline Brosh McKenna

Movie: Vengeance — B.J. Novak

Music: Tinta y Tiempo — Jorge Drexler